We may wonder why so few people
come into our lives. Maybe it is because we don’t have the right
‘environment of soul’. Wherever Christ went, people gathered around
him. They were attracted to his inner strength, his compassion,
honesty and integrity. We should be imitators of Christ – His
characteristics attract people seeking God’s grace.
When we stop being judgmental and develop a
Christ-like environment in our soul, it won’t be long before the birds
(people seeking grace) begin to visit. When we have developed a truly
graceful attitude, God will bring people into our lives to be
refreshed.
However, when we develop this ‘Christ-like grace’ we
will soon learn a truth: as a refreshing birdbath and feeder attracts
desirable birds, it equally attracts less desirable birds like crows
and ravens. Likewise, a graceful soul attracts desirable people but
equally frustrating and annoying people.
We will be tempted to scare-off those undesirables
only wanting the desirables to make themselves at home. In this way we
can subtly become little Pharisees thinking it is good to be graceful
but not if it attracts undesirables like ‘tax collectors, adulterers or
gentiles’.
Getting grace right is a balancing act. We don’t want to
be selective with our grace, withholding it from the unappealing
people that are just as hungry for it as the appealing; nor do we want
to encourage the ravens to a degree where all the other birds are
frightened off. How do we solve this dilemma, God gives us both grace
and wisdom to handle all circumstances if we seek it. (Matthew 5:43-48)